I can't believe John and I are getting to the point where we are only six months away from our wedding. It seems like just yesterday we were engaged and started pulling together plans for February 2nd of next year. So far, wedding planning has been actually pretty easy for us - I am very lucky to have been to so many weddings I know what is required to pull together a fabulous event. I think that some things that are really helping us are that:
- John and I are paying for the wedding which is challenging for us but this keeps there from being 'too many cooks in the kitchen.' Both of our families are happily involved but not so involved every decision ends up being a long drawn out process. Decisions usually consist of me calling someone who I know does a really good job, and then asking John to choose what he likes best and going with that. done!
- We are hiring people we really, truly trust and asking them to do what they think is best. I can't tell you how much this takes off of the stress level for me. Even though I have seen a ton of weddings, I really don't know flowers in and out - or what is the best dish to serve at a winter wedding. John and I provide some input of our style and tastes when needed but I actually asked our
our event designer to surprise us with the centerpieces. I know that whatever she comes up with is going to be better than anything I could have imagined!
- I am not doing bridesmaids dresses, all the girls can wear black dresses of their choice. Actually. . . one of
my bridesmaids who will remain unnamed is giving me a hard time about this ;) But really, I'm sure all the girls have black dresses in their closet and pulling together eight different measurement sizes and having to keep track of them? no, thanks!
So some things we are focusing on are:
- Trying to ensure all the guests are comfortable and have some fun things to be entertained by throughout the night. We're going to have a few fun surprises that will hopefully make a very memorable evening for our friends and family!
- Spending a lot of time planning our honeymoon to
Costa Rica. Gives us something to look forward to!
- Cake. tasting. need I say more?
So here are things so far - we probably need to register for more items and I need to start going shoe shopping so my dress can get tailored but otherwise I think we're doing really well! For those of you who missed it on the other blog, my fabulous web designer Adam Cambridge made
this wedsite for me.